Wednesday Mar 19, 2025

Self-Confidence Myths and Misconceptions

Self-confidence isn’t something you wait to earn. It’s a choice you make before there’s any proof you’ll succeed. But I know that choice isn’t always easy.

I used to believe confidence came from accomplishments, but I’ve learned that self-confidence is different. It’s believing in yourself even when you have no evidence to back it up. That belief fuels every risk you take, every dream you chase, and every time you show up for yourself.

If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll feel confident when…” I want you to challenge that. Self-confidence isn’t built on achievements or outside approval. It’s an inside job. In this episode, I’ll show you how to stop waiting and start believing, because confident teens and confident women don’t wait for permission to trust themselves.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction

02:55 Definition of Self-Confidence

03:17 What Self-Confidence is Not

03:50 Difference Between Confidence and Self-Confidence

06:00 Self-Confidence and Goal Achievement

06:34 Self-Confidence vs. Arrogance

07:40 Self-Confidence and External Validation

09:05 The “As Soon As” and “Not Enough” Mentality

10:31 Prerequisites for Self-Confidence

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